Ben younger dating
I'm not a lost little lamb anymore, but rather, a confident, sexy lion.Sorry that I just referred to myself as a sexy lion, but seeing how confused he was made me realize I wasn't anymore.It’s told very squarely on his shoulders, and I hope it’s going to be a story that will be thrilling but also emotional.It’s more Batman in his detective mode than we’ve seen in the films. He’s supposed to be the world’s greatest detective, and that’s not necessarily been a part of what the movies have been.But then I met Ben (name has been changed to protect the overly sensitive).Ben changed my views on younger guys — because, really, the operative word is here, not man (and, hi, I'm a woman, not a girl) — upside down, and made me see the pros and cons of dating a younger guy, like...I have a savings account, a functioning coffee maker, and an organized bookshelf — things he could only wish for.I looked at my throw pillows — which I once thought looked cheap — and for the first time, I thought, "wait, am I actually the queen of the world?
So, yeah, I've been disappointed by my past boyfriends' lack of scheduling ability compared to my own, but Ben made them look like professional bookkeepers. I memorized a script to tell my friends when he would constantly bail." It also made me feel better about the way people romanticize youth and have unrealistic beauty standards. I was investing so much time teaching him things, being patient with him.