Dating 20 years younger
Instead of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something I’ve talked about before, today I’ll discuss what By “older men” I’m talking about men between the ages of 30 and 49 or so, though men in their 50s who have followed my advice and taken care of themselves physically certainly apply also.The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.Even if you think she might consider what you’re doing “creepy”, you need to go for it.That doesn’t mean you cross the line, but it does mean you are very aggressive, and err on the side of “creepy” rather than “nice guy”.By the way, I think society downplays the awesome superpowers a man has when he’s both older older men really do rule the roost in a very real way. Mistake Number 4: Being Limited By Your Own Societal Programming Some older guys who would really like to date younger women, and be good for them, stop themselves because they have thoughts like… You are always 100% honest with her, and are not lying to her or leading her on.There is absolutely nothing wrong, immoral, or unethical about dating a much younger woman provided these three things are true: 1. If you’re being completely, 100% honest with her, and she’s willing, and she’s legal, go for it. There is nothing wrong or evil or immoral about it.
Mistake Number 2: Acting Like A Creepy Older Man, i.e.
It’s simply a very strong, visceral preference, often based on the age of her parents which obviously you have zero control over.
Even if you’ve think you’ve had sex with a reluctant you would have never gotten her pants off.
Being Horny Or Sexual Too Fast One of the greatest pieces of seduction advice I’ve ever heard was to “risk creepy”.
This means that when you’re escalating on a woman, you need to push the envelope.
If you start talking about how hot her boobs are or tell her how you “can’t wait to get her back to your place”, she’s going to vanish fast, even if she’s a especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.